"A lot of guys are so accustomed to the virgin archetype that they worry they'll tarnish me, or think that I won't be any fun or that I'm conservative." The nicest thing a guy's ever said to me when I told him I was waiting was, 'Your commitment to waiting just makes you that much more attractive to me.' The worst thing was, 'I don't know how you do that.'" - Sara*, 22 2. Guys (and girls) are still very comfortable making dirty jokes around and with me, and talking about their sex lives with me. But no, guys don't necessarily treat me much differently. I feel like I have a lot of really solid, platonic friendships with guys because it sort of eliminates any possible sexual tension. I don't have a problem bringing it up if he doesn't. The topic usually comes up pretty organically, though. In it, he discusses how Christ loves us totally, definitely, and sacrificially through his body, and that is what sex was created for us to do as well - to love others totally, definitely, and sacrificially through out bodies. Most people I go on dates with are people who know I take my commitment to my Catholic faith seriously and know before going on a date with me that keeping sex sacred in the sacrament of marriage is important to me. "I decided I wanted to wait when I read St. "I don't have a problem bringing it up if he doesn't." spoke with three women in their early 20s who are waiting until marriage to have sex, and yes, they're still going on dates, and yes, they've used Tinder. Although Millennials are often criticized for just wanting to hook up, never falling in love, and never going on any actual dates, there are twentysomethings out there for whom dating is about everything but sex.
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